Love is learning how to give everything of yourself and expect nothing in return, understanding that whatever you give out will come back to you, strengthened in a different form.
Love is recognizing the different values that we may place on the same observations and knowing in that difference lay opportunities to expand our own view and accept there is no one way to see anything. To see through someone else's eyes is to learn the path of compassion.
Learning to love unconditionally creates opportunities to see more fully the nature of our partner which shines through the imperfections like stained glass, helping us to recognize the imperfections of our own.
To truly love is to understand that you can never lose, seeing that each moment with our connection is complete in itself, no matter if it's for the entirety or till that point where expansion withers. It was all as it was meant to be and growth lay in the ability to surrender to that understanding.
Loving is to be able to see your partner at their best even when they may feel at their worst, so you are reminded constantly that they are helping you to become more than you have ever believed yourself to be.
To love completely is to hold back nothing, no matter how much we fear misinterpretation, as love goes beyond the physical, and the denial of it will do nothing but dilute the love in which we wish to propagate our growth.
To love wholeheartedly is to understand that there are no conditions to loving, except the promise to bring the greatest degree of honesty to bear at all times no matter how painful the experience, as pain shared is a discomfort on the way to being released.
To give love fully is to regret nothing, as nothing before that moment existed save the inability to forgive oneself, which is all that holds the past in place. Our hearts are pure, it's only our minds that falter with the weight of the programs our fears have created.
To make love completely is to agree to surrender everything we have previously observed about ourselves, to become lost in the moment together where perspective knows no bounds and the ability to find ourselves renewed is a relentless possibility.
To create love is to never look towards the weakness in our partners but to their strengths that will in time help to absorb our insecurities and lessen our requirement to feel the need to control, as control is only the measure of what we are trying to control within ourselves.
Love can be a candle that lights the way in the darkness of our fears, illuminating our doubts and sending forth a signal to those that are just beginning to understand that love is the only true road to peace.
The love that we are willing to share may often seem at odds with a world that can appear to be suffering from a lack of it, but those that would seek to cast aspersions on our love in any way, whether in jealousy, envy, or just indifference, are not bad people, they are just people who somewhere along the way have forgotten how to love. DKH